The French language and I
have been antagonists since our first introduction. I vandalised the
language - according to my Father and teachers, and the language tortured me.
Despite the many long hours I spent
trying to make friends with The Language of Love, it was not to be , until I hit my
mid-life crisis and spontaneously bought a house in France off the internet , in a region where English is infrequently spoken
or understood.
With the aid of the
Alliance Française, a truce with cette langue was conceded toute de suite
and I recommenced French lessons in 2011.
Now I hold
the dubious honour of taking the longest time of any Alliance Française student in Melbourne (or perhaps the world) to successfully
complete Beginners Level French. And it's not for lack of trying - it's
just that my efforts have been sporadic and the hearing in my left ear has
prematurely ceased.
There are words I can understand and spell, but not pronounce. Then there’re words I can pronounce and verbs I
can conjugate, but fail to be able to put them into coherent sentences, unless I have preplanned
and rehearsed what I want to say. A killer for spontaneous conversation. However, the greatest language mistakes
I’ve made are with false friends – French words that look and sound like English words, but have a very different meaning.
A further barrier to my communication is the spit-fire speed at which the French speak and the plethora of silent letters that can make a sentence sound like one, very
long, indistinguishable word. My comprehension, when it exists, lags at least
few paragraphs behind the conversation making me look like a village idiot: my
facial expression is blank as the flight or fight mechanism musters the energy
needed to decipher what I'm hearing. Definitely not a time to multitask.
Our first foray into a hardware
store (un bricomarche) was met with puzzled looks when I asked the carefully
rehearsed question "Est-que vous avez des planchers de chien s'il vous
plait?" Have you (floor) boards (made) of dog please? “Ahhh chêne – oui, oui “ was the relieved response of the shop assistant when I produced the piece of paper on which I
had correctly written my question.
Excité(e) is a French word that I can pronounce clearly and confidently. In the
past I’ve told quite a few French people (including officials) that I was très excitée to be in France, only to get a reaction which ranged from a smirk to a
look of indignation. With such
responses, a prudent person would have referred to their dictionary. Not me.
It was the retort of our close French friend, Guillame, that finally goaded me into checking the translation of excitée. Unfortunately it remained in my oral French vocabulary for years
One July morning, after a 6 am start in
order to make as much possible progress with our renovating before the expected 400
C heat arrived, a trip to the le bricomarché and le supermarché were necessary. As I was leaving My French Folly, clutching a shopping list, Guillame (artisan extraordinaire) appeared - just in time to advise me
on what type and brand of wood preservative I should buy.
"Bonjour
Guillame " I exclaimed, before kissing him on each cheek, “Je suis
très excitée parce que tu es arrivé et je vais faire les courses . Quel préservatif, je dois acheter s'il
vous plaît ?”
Loosely translated I said "Hello Guillame,
I am sexually aroused because you had arrived and I'm going shopping. What type of condom do I need
to buy please?"
Note to self: excité = sexual excitement or arousal (not thrilled or excited); un préservatif = condom; chêne is not pronounced chien.
